Question by Dregs: “”Christian”” mother throwing a Pointless Fit?
Ok. I have came to the thought that my christian mother is bitter or jealous of me for having friends who actually care or wanna spend time with me.

My girlfriend who I have known since January 2011, asked me for help on the last 100 she needed to pay her rent.Heres the thing, my gf has: two sons and two dogs while working out her house saving stray or free animals. She asked me to help pay half of her phonebill but for some reason she used her rent money for her phone.

so when it came to buying the bill, we had to scramble whatever money we had to pay the bill and it came down to $ 100. I gave my gf the money she needed to keep her place or she would get evicted.

When my mother found out, she is saying things like my gf is using me for money which is stupid and believe me it is. Me and my gf have been hanging out every week and from what I know no one who do not have enough for gas money would come 45 mins from their home to their lover or friends place and hangout?

My mother is the type to tell you to be help the needy, good nice, and things like that but when you actually do more than that she would get mad or tihnk smoeone is using you.

my question is, where does the hypocritcial state my mom is in stop?
I USED to work for my mother daycare. I was fired because I was helping my gf keep her place. That is how I made my money.
my mom is the type to tell you not to judge people but when its time for her to apply that to her own life, she doesnt one bit. she is always talking smack about people and will grossip to other people about it.

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Answer by ////
well, i don’t know. sometimes you’ll never understand why women do what they do. trust me, i am one. lol. how do you get your money to help your girl? is it your mom’s money? then, i’d hope you understand. if it’s fully your hard earned money, then i guess she is just being a mother, worried about her baby and … you know… maybe mom wants to be the only lady in your life. don’t fret too much over it, it’s prob. jus a mom thing.

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